Women Wrestlers tend to love sessions in part because they can pay extremely well.

If I had to do it all over again would I still say no?

Years ago I attended this women’s wrestling event with the intention of seeing and paying for some great wrestling. Once there I noticed one of the beautiful girls was paying a lot of attention to me and even sat on my lap. I was very naïve at that moment in my fan boy stage so I actually thought she was attracted to me. Even now it still feels like a compliment because she could have sat on someone else’s lap.

She and a friend would later offer me what I know now to be a super rate for both of them but I declined and offered them more money to wrestle instead. They weren’t interested. Fully competitive wrestling tires them out and sometimes they get injured. If it were up to them, during these events they would eliminate the fully competitive matches all together, perform in fantasy ones only and above all focus on session after session.

I didn’t really get it then but many moons, events and a number of sessions later, I think I understand it better now.

When I say session, for those of you newer to the women’s wrestling industry, let’s examine an objective definition.

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fciwomenswrestling.com article – photo

A site dedicated to sessions, sessionmatch.com explains, “A Private Session Wrestler is a woman who wrestles an opponent for money in a private match out of public view. The location of the Session is usually a place where privacy and discretion can be assured.

The nature of the match is usually run as a fantasy, semi-competitive, competitive or some other style of match. This is usually discussed and agreed to in the matchmaking stage. Also, discussed at this stage is the fee paid to the Session Wrestler, the location, need for privacy and discretion, rules (pins, submissions, holds allowed and not allowed), duration, and attire. As you can see, these matches are engaged in by consenting adults. The operative word is “consenting.”

Wikipedia focuses on the session wrestler, primarily female.

“Session wrestlers, also known as “private wrestlers”, wrestle an opponent as a service, for money, in a private setting. Typically, the service provider is a professional (ring) wrestler, amateur wrestler, or bodybuilder. Session wrestlers most commonly are women who cater to male clientele, but there are also men who provide the service, as well as female clients.

Some clients partake in private wrestling matches for the athletic challenge, but for most clients, engaging a private wrestler is a form of sexual fantasy, fulfilling a desire for domination and submission. The sessions usually include wrestling or fighting in which the provider is stronger or more skilled than their opponent. The fantasy may also have an intellectual or emotional component, with the client trying to (or pretending to try to) take control, but failing. Session wrestling rarely involves sex, or sex acts, though it may include nudity. The sessions also frequently involve muscle worship.”

I first had a chance to experience session wrestling at Jackpin’s great 2008 Women’s Wrestling Convention in San Diego. It was fantastic participating with Mary Ann and Mindy then of the Fem Wrestling Room’s group.

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fciwomenswrestling.com article – wikimedia photo

I’ve later enjoyed a session with FeFe from the San Francisco Bay Area who is very sexy and is relaxed and soothing in conversation. At Femwin’s 2014 Women’s Wrestling Extravaganza in Las Vegas, among others I had a chance to session with the always fun Kristie Etzold and within seconds of her leg scissor I cried uncle in the loudest voice I could. I met Doll Del Fuego there who is as sexy as she is curvy and surprisingly very strong. Still, once I got a chance to pin her and go for a leg curl, submission was her only way out. I loved my session with her so much that I did something I never did before and that was to book her again. Jolene was very strong and surprised me with her tenacity. She is so competitive, I thought about turning it into a fantasy session but I had to salvage some of my male pride and score a couple of submissions.

When I interviewed Nicole I knew that I wanted to have a future session with her and made that dream come true.

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fciwomenswrestling.com article

I met many fellow gentlemen at events who had sessions with a wide variety of beautiful wrestlers, with some lists numbering well over 50 and some over 100.


If you have experienced many sessions, you probably have your pre-session criteria and so do I. What I want to avoid in this article is a breakdown of the dos and don’ts because you have WB270 that does that incredibly well. Another great site that focuses on sessions is run by former WWE wrestler Jennifer Thomas who Femwin’s team and I had dinner with in Las Vegas. Her site is called sessiongirls.com and she is a super nice lady. You should contact her.

The reason my list is comparatively short but admittedly growing is for a few reasons.

Escaping from a very conservative world, I didn’t like the idea of meeting strangers at their home which is rare, or at a hotel room so I’ve always waited for events like Jackpins or Femwin’s because I know there is a safe structure in place, there are rules and guidelines for both the female and myself that enhances the chance of both of us enjoying a good experience.

I have also struggled with the price which now can easily come in at $300 for one hour. Believe it or not, I used to think of how many video tapes or online memberships I could get for that money. Too, I have worn a producer’s hat and shot product and the difference is that one is permanent and the other, well, lasts for one hour.

As you can see, I have begun to come around in my thinking because of what many of us have learned as we live longer and the trail ahead gets shorter.

So much of life is about your memories.

Some memories are realities, and are better than anything that can ever happen to one again.………Willa Cather

You either look back and swim softly in them or you quickly shut the lens when the unpleasant image appears. The other undesirable option of course is to look back and see nothing at all.

So my solution is to save my money.

Hey guess what? I’m scheduled to session in the near future with Cheyenne Jewel. I’m salivating and given her widely admired reputation I’m even willing to meet her in a hotel room with the hope of dinner and an interview afterwards.

So sessions? Okay, the clouds are parting and the memories are mounting.

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fciwomenswrestling.com article – wikimedia photo

As far as our first example, do you want to know what special the two beauties offered me to session with both of them for one hour? Only $200!

It’s not regret; well I guess it kind of is, but if I could walk back in time and they made me that two for one offer again, what do you think I would say now?

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Sources: brainyquote.com, Wikipedia, sessionmatch.com, WB270, sessiongirls.com, fciwomenswrestling.com, Nicole’s photo copyright https://femcompetitor.com, thank you Wikimedia commons for city photos.