Uneasy, awkward, frightened and vulnerable are just a few of the emotions that you feel when you meet someone that you are extremely attracted to for the first time.
Not to mention incredibly excited.
You try and hide it, you try and suppress it, even try to fight what you are feeling but can’t control it. Soon you eventually accept your fate.
You are at their mercy.
Hopefully that are not emotionally brutal.
When seeing the gorgeous shapely model Tinder Badhesha for the first time electronically, you might breathe a sigh of relief that you didn’t meet her in person.
She would have too much power over you.
She has absolute power over the modeling industry. That’s why they continue to fawn all over her.
When she speaks, they listen. At plus-model-mag.com they were happy to secure an interview. “Street style is always a great way to see what’s out there on the fashion scene and be inspired to create your own fabulous street style. We love to see a model’s street style when she’s off duty and living her everyday life.
At the engaging site chardline.com they gush, “I am so mesmerized by Tinder Badhesha. Her sun kissed skin and beautiful curves compliment the beauty of her personality. I know, it almost sounds like love poem BUT, I guarantee after introducing you to Tinder aka Tinderoni, you’ll definitely understand where I am coming from.”
Yes we understand completely where you are coming from.
It’s important not to indicate. People don’t try to show their feelings, they try to hide them………Robert De Niro
The talented Brazilian singer Morris Albert’s 1974 classic chart topping melody Feelings is the anthem for those of us who have fallen emotionally for a stranger and hope that they are merciful.
Feelings, nothing more than feelings
Trying to forget my feelings of love
Teardrops rolling down on my face
Trying to forget my feelings of love
Feelings, for all my life I’ll feel it
I wish I’ve never met you, girl
You’ll never come again
Before this gets out of hand, Tinder will show us some mercy, distract us and take over for this writer, until I can collect myself.
At her profile on the industry site modelmayhem.com she softly shares, “Hi! I’m Tinder and I am an East Indian Plus Size model. Modeling means the world to me because I want to break the cultural barriers that bind most of the women of my ethnicity and really inspire women of all ethnicities to embrace who they are as they are; and know that they can do anything that they want to.
I want to promote a positive self-image and also break the rules of the Fashion industry standards.
I would like to collaborate with Designers, Photographers, MUAs, and hair stylists who are willing to help break the barriers that the fashion industry has for Plus Size women and do projects that are going to put a different yet positive perspective on Plus Size women.”
Thus far she appears to be surpassing her goals.
A modeling industry leader and trend-setter plus-model-mag.com smiles, “In this month’s issue of PLUS Model Magazine, get to know our feature model Tinder Badhesha. PMM Editor-in-Chief Madeline Jones interviewed Tinder in the issue, who we think is one of this year’s rising stars.”
Tinder is from Fresno, California.
Fresno is well known for its nationally competitive college football team, the Bulldogs, but there is so much more to this large central valley California City.
A progressive city that elected a female mayor named Ashley Swearengin is a sign of an inclusive and innovative future for Tinder’s home town.
The gracious city site fresno.gov proudly praises, “Elected Mayor of Fresno in 2008, Ashley Swearengin is a dynamic leader who focuses on building coalitions of experienced and capable experts to solve problems in honest and thoughtful ways. She has dedicated nearly her entire professional career to improving Fresno and the San Joaquin Valley. She is Fresno’s 21st elected mayor since the city was incorporated in 1885.”
Now for some basics.
Fresno as of 2015 has a population of 520,159, making it the fifth largest city in California, the largest inland city in California and the 34th largest in the nation. The name Fresno means ‘ash tree‘ in Spanish, and an ash leaf is featured on the city’s flag.
It’s in a nice location. According to the global travel site lonelyplanet.com, “it is beautifully situated, just an hour’s drive from four national parks (Yosemite, Sierra, Kings Canyon and Sequoia), making it the ideal last stop for expeditions.”
This writer has traveled to Yosemite several times and Los Angeles countless times. Fresno is always a nice place to visit along the way.
We would love to take Tinder to one of the finest East Indian restaurants in Fresno, sit in the corner by the window, at night by candle light and perhaps open up and share feelings that we have been hiding.
Where might we go for some great Indian food and privacy?
The informative site tandoorinightfresno.com provides us with a nice review. “Best Indian Restaurant in Fresno. I have spent a great deal of time hunting down the best Indian cuisine in town. When Tandoori Night moved in I was excited to finally have an Indian restaurant in north Fresno. I have tried nearly all their dishes and have never had something I didn’t like. Newbies should look at getting Chicken Tikki Masala or a Lamb Korma.
Both are flavorful dishes you will be most pleased with. For the more adventurous, try the Chicken Kashmiri (the perfect spicy/sweet with pineapple chunks) or the Saag Panner (creamed spinach, it tastes better than it looks, I promise). The best accompaniments are a mango lassi (to cool your tongue when you order your dish spicier than you can handle) and onion kulcha or garlic naan. Tandoori Night also does take out. The restaurant is always very clean and the staff always helpful when you have any questions.”
Great. We’re convinced.
At her interview with chardline.com she helps us understand a little more of who she is internally so that we don’t have to stay in the fantasy world. What is her advice to shapely women who might suffer from self-esteem issues?
“LOVE YOURSELF!! If a woman just invested in taking care of herself internally (taking vitamins, healthy eating habits, taking necessary meds on time) and externally (exercise, dressing right for your body, pampering yourself) you would feel like a Queen! So PLEASE take care of yourself, and stop comparing yourself to others.
If God wanted all of us to be the same he would have created a world where we would be.”
Words of wisdom to live by.
Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche born was October 15, 1844. He was a German philosopher, cultural critic, poet, and Latin and Greek scholar whose work has exerted a profound influence on Western philosophy and modern intellectual history.
He was once quoted as expressing, “Thoughts are the shadows of our feelings – always darker, emptier and simpler.”
Thoughts towards a beautiful woman like Tinder can be complex, enticing and easy to long swim in.
Tinder is an elegant, classy, gorgeous, wonderfully shaped local girl next door with a powerful global philosophy.
It’s no wonder that the fashion industry and fans like myself can’t hide our feelings for her.
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Sources: brainyquote.com, Wikipedia, fciwomenswrestling2.com, FCI Elite Competitor, photos thank you Wikimedia Commons.